Ask Amy: Hopeful bride wonders about ‘shacking up’
I now feel completely confident in declaring that you should never marry a guy who wants to sing you down the aisle. (The same no-singing rule applies to brides, by the way.)
Leave the solos for the reception.
You should consider the probability that your well-deserved happy-ever-after will begin the day after you leave this relationship.
Maybe your guy can sing you out.
Dear Amy: The daughter of a long-time friend of mine was supposed to get married last year. My partner and I were invited, even though we don’t know the bride — or any of the other guests.
We had planned to go, but COVID took care of that.
They have rescheduled for this year.
We were notified of the date change, but all the other details were the same. We were not “re-invited,” and thus didn’t have the opportunity to decline.
The problem is that I just don’t want to go.
It involves airfare, hotel expenses, fancy winter clothes, etc.
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