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Ask Amy: Friendship falters over shunning

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Outside of that context, you should keep your views to yourself.

Dear Amy: “Upset DIL” wrote about the extremely unbalanced way her mother-in-law was handling her estate, essentially giving everything to one brother over another brother, who had previously been promised everything.

I would not have believed this, except this is exactly what my mother did!

In retrospect, I see her as a real game-player. As she got older, she wielded these family objects like swords.

I learned that the best response was not to care.

– Older and Wiser

 

Dear Wiser: “Not caring” is tough to achieve, but it is a game-changer.

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(You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.)

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