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Ask Amy: An offer of prayer doesn’t sit well

Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

For me, the thing that made in-person showers tolerable was the food, treats, drinks and goofing around with people at your table.

Without that, it is just something to get through.

No one should be hosting a virtual event with more than 30 people. It's obnoxious and impersonal. Break it up into smaller events!

– Zoomed-Out

Dear Zoomed-Out: I continue to be stunned by the sheer number of people some people know!


Yes, smaller events are much better, whether virtual or actual.


(You can email Amy Dickinson at or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.)

©2021 Amy Dickinson. Distributed by Tribune Content Agency, LLC.




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