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That experience was really difficult, emotionally, physically, and mentally.
Since then, I can't help but think about getting pregnant again.
I want to have a family now and we're both taking steps to try to conceive.
I find myself wondering: What if it doesn't work? Then I get saddened by the thought.
We don't have tons of money to put toward IVF or adoption, and we are at a loss about what to do.
— Changed my Mind
Dear Changed: You don’t mention you or your husband receiving medical advice about his — and your — fertility. Before you panic, he should see a urologist who specializes in male fertility.
Knowledge is power, and you should approach this as a team. Explore all of your options, including fostering a child and/or adopting a child through the foster care system.
Adoptuskids.org is a clearinghouse for information concerning adopting children from the foster care system. The website offers state-by-state guidelines and reports that there are usually no or low fees associated with adopting (aside from perhaps hiring your own attorney), and that in some cases, financial assistance is available. Specialists are available to answer your questions through info@adoptuskids.org or by calling (888) 200-4005.
Dear Amy: Regarding your answer to “Catholic Guilt,” talk about offensive advice!
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