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Ask Amy: Long-ago cheating leaves wife ruminating

By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

In short, your girlfriend does not get to control how you conduct your (successful) relationship with your ex-wife and her family.

Dear Amy: “Hopeful” did not want her fiance’s friend to come to their wedding because he had disrespected her in the past.

She does not have to invite, nor should she be expected to invite, someone who has shown such contempt. And a man who would invite someone who referred to his fiance as "sloppy seconds" has no respect for his partner or himself.

— Dalal

Dear Dalal: One wonders why the fiancé was so eager to invite him.

 

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