Ask Amy: Bank worker is instructed to 'flirt'
Dear Amy: I brought a big client to the bank where I work. I partnered with a "relationship representative" (a female colleague) to build the account at the bank.
The rep informed me that she was having issues with the partnership and said she needed my help.
I spoke to the client and we agreed to speak again at a later date.
Sometime after this, the rep and I saw him at a public event.
I was truly shocked when the rep asked me to go "flirt" with the client.
I am gay, as is the man in question.
I am afraid to say something, as my position is too low, and I may be terminated.
What should I do?
-- K
Dear K: You don't say how you responded to this request in the moment, but your colleague's suggestion is totally inappropriate, and you should register your discomfort.
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