Errant husband stresses sick wife
I think you should find an amazing attorney with forensic accounting expertise, explore where your marital money has gone, legally secure the maximum amount you can, and commit yourself to living the life you want to live, the way you want to live it.
In short, dump the bum. Free your mind, and the rest will follow.
You should not leave your own community, friends and children in order to move 90 minutes away and be isolated with someone you don't trust. Your lawyer will advise you about keeping your health insurance through a COBRA plan. This could also be a negotiating point in your legal separation.
Commit yourself to your medical treatment, and to your healthier and supportive relationships. Show your children what a resilient, emotionally brave and adventurous person you can be.
Dear Amy: I have a sensitive nose, and skin problems relating to strong detergents, fragrant dryer sheets, perfumes, etc.
I belong to a social group where a couple of ladies have laundered their clothes in a strong detergent. Amy, it literally takes my breath away.
I don't want to quit my social life, but I am hesitant to mention this to these ladies.
I'm sure I'm not the only one affected by this problem, and just want to make people aware they might be offending others.
Any suggestions?
-- Nosey
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