Rolodex rancher trolls contacts
Understand your anxiety, and lean in. Maybe you should tell yourself you'll try this new thing for three months. Understand that it is easier to find a new job when you're already working.
You're going to be OK.
Dear Amy: Thank you for your response to "Broke in Arkansas," who had loaned a relative $3,000, with no paperwork to prove it.
No one should loan money they can't afford to lose, especially to family members.
-- Been There
Dear Been There: This family could afford to lose $3,000, but they still wanted to be repaid, and I don't blame them.
========
(You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.)