Ghosted girlfriend is trapped with ex at a wedding
It's a bit late for divorce, but maybe that's the only solution. Any advice?
-- Feeling Stuck
Dear Stuck: I think it's time for you to say, "Bye, Felicia."
Living on pins and needles with an explosively angry racist is no way to live.
You could invite your husband into counseling with you in order to express your true concerns about his behavior -- and the beliefs behind it -- but I think you should also be prepared to ultimately leave this long marriage. I'm sorry for your experience.
Dear Amy: "Undecided" was torn between her great career and having children.
Have a family! That great job will never take the place of putting your child to bed after a hot day and a clean bath, or the feeling you get when the baby bottles are stacked in the fridge ready for the next day.
Yeah, it's hard, but she's an overachiever. She should get it done.
-- Done It
Dear Done: Everyone is different, but the whole "bottles stacked in the fridge ready for the next day" feeling never happened for me. Not once.
(You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or Facebook.)
