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A raccoon stirs up household drama

By Amy Dickinson, Tribune Content Agency on

Dear Readers: I've stepped away from the Ask Amy column for two weeks to work on a new writing project. I hope you enjoy these edited "best of" columns in my absence. All of these questions and answers were first published 10 years ago. Today's topic is "Red Flags."

Dear Amy: A guy I'm interested in killed a raccoon in my yard because it was eating my cat's food. He seems to think he did a good deed. I, however, am horrified because it's not the animal's fault that it found food near my house. Should I run before becoming too involved with this person?

-- Wondering

Dear Wondering: What this guy did is wrong on so many levels -- but let's just start with the fact that he chose to do something quite serious on your property, and without your permission. Raccoons might be considered pests when they get into neighborhoods and pick through garbage or eat cat food, but there is a very sensible solution to this -- and that is to being the cat's food inside.

People who gratuitously kill animals are twisted. If he comes around, I'd suggest you treat him as the pest he is. Chase him off. (Oct. 2009)

Dear Amy: Recently, my parents hosted a family dinner. After dinner, my sister's boyfriend decided to light some fireworks. My boyfriend and I, my sister, her boyfriend and our parents stood in front of the house, watching.

 

About 15 minutes in, a new neighbor approached my sister's boyfriend. The neighbor didn't even get to say hello before he started yelling. The neighbor began to say that his infant child had been sick and that she needed her sleep. My sister was pleading with her boyfriend to stop yelling, but that made him angrier.

We stood there completely in shock. The boyfriend wouldn't come into the house, and the neighbor left.

I feel horrible. This neighbor didn't do anything wrong. I live at home with my parents, but my sister lives with her boyfriend. I told my mother we should go over to the neighbor's house with flowers and explain that we don't condone that behavior. I also don't want my sister to feel embarrassed about her boyfriend's behavior when she's around us.

-- Exploding Embarrassed

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