Woman wonders how to combat social ills
Your assistant's intel is useful on some level. But do NOT let an inexperienced 21-year-old tell you how to run your career.
I'm not sure if "cleaning my office" is on the list of tasks support staff should perform for you, however. Are they grumbling and gossiping because they are unsure of their duties, unused to your management style (or lack thereof), and don't feel comfortable speaking with you directly? Why haven't you gotten to know other support staff?
Review professional expectations and the appropriate workflow in your office, communicate openly with co-workers as if they are capable professionals and do what you can to turn your corner of this toxic dump into a respectable workplace.
Dear Amy: I'm concerned about your response to "Wannabe Empty Nesters." These parents have a 35-year-old daughter living in their house and they want her out.
I couldn't believe that you would suggest that this woman should move in with her sister and her family! That's just transferring the problem from one household to another!
-- Upset
Dear Upset: I suggested this as a possible solution -- only if the sister wanted it, of course. I agree that foisting a family member onto another family member is no answer.
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(You can contact Amy Dickinson via email: ASKAMY@amydickinson.com. Readers may send postal mail to Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. You can also follow her on Twitter @askingamy or "like" her on Facebook.)
