Twin obsession interferes with dating relationship
Dear Amy: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years.
The first year of our relationship, his twin sister was living in another country. She came back to live in this country last year.
Upon her return, I very quickly discovered that they are extremely affectionate and obsessed with each other.
She acts like his girlfriend or mom. She controls him.
When he does something to upset her, like decline to go out for dinner, she guilts him relentlessly and he feels awful.
In general, I find their relationship creepy, annoying and immature.
Can I say something, or is it not my place?
And what would I even say? Am I being mean, or is this a reasonable thing to be concerned about?
-- Unsure
Dear Unsure: If your boyfriend is actually obsessed with his sister, then you're toast.
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