Bitter child torn about confronting father
The obvious solution is for you to make a concerted effort to learn your husband's language. I assume your in-laws would be honored, and your comprehension would shoot up, even if your ability to speak lagged.
Until then, you should ask and then remind (in a good-natured way and in their language), "Oh please, can you speak English? I don't want to miss anything!"
Dear Amy: Like "Brokenhearted Niece," I had a volatile family member who had a tendency to drink and embarrass herself and others.
When I got married, I had a friend with experience who was willing to basically monitor this person and handle her if things got tough during the wedding and reception. We had no problems, but this relieved me of worrying about it.
-- Happily Wed
Dear Wed: A great solution.
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