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Afghanistan's First Lady

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WASHINGTON -- The most striking thing about interviewing Rula Ghani, the first lady of Afghanistan, may be that the interview is taking place at all.

Consider: Zeenat Karzai, the physician wife of former Afghan President Hamid Karzai, was rarely seen in public during her husband's decade-long tenure.

Ghani, whose husband, Ashraf Ghani, became president last year, is a natural-born diplomat, careful to note the distinction between her situation (two grown children) and that of her younger predecessor. "We are in different phases of our lives," said Rula Ghani, 66.

Zeenat Karzai herself once acknowledged the societal constraints against taking an active role as first lady. "He [Hamid Karzai] and I both know our country's culture, traditions and the current state of affairs," she explained in a rare 2013 BBC interview. "We need to take this into account."

Ghani, raised in a Lebanese Maronite Christian family and educated in France, the United States and Lebanon (she and her husband met as students at the American University of Beirut), has adopted a decidedly different route. It began during the presidential race, when she campaigned alongside her husband, just once, on International Women's Day.

"I told him, it's kind of strange, here you're going to be talking about women's rights ... I think I should be there with you," she recalled in an interview at the Afghan embassy here. She not only appeared, but, at her husband's suggestion, spoke, briefly, about women's ability to use the skills developed in the household -- educating, managing and peace-keeping -- in a public capacity.

 

"For me it was really a no-brainer, and I was surprised by the reaction that people thought it was such a huge step," Ghani told me.

She made news, again, during the inauguration, when her husband lavished praise on "my partner" for her work on behalf of Afghan women.

When they returned to Afghanistan in 2002 (Ashraf Ghani had been working here, for the World Bank) and her husband served as finance minister, she worked with an organization, Aschiana, that helps feed and educate street children. Bored out of her wits in the presidential palace, she decided to open her own office "to try and forge a role for myself," advocating not only for women and girls but other vulnerable populations. She now has a staff of six.

This month found her on a solo, two-week visit to the United States, with speeches at the Center for Strategic and International Studies and Georgetown, appearances on NPR's "The Diane Rehm Show" and "Morning Edition," and visits with her American-born children (Mariam, a Brooklyn-based artist, and Tarek, a doctoral candidate in business at Berkeley).

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