From the ArcaMax Publishing, Parents Newsletter:
http://www.arcamax.com/news/parents/s-6217-809242
"Mom, I'm bored!"
"Dad, play with me!!"
Sound familiar?
If you're a parent, these plaintive cries from your children can
become daily shouts. As busy moms and dads, we're continuously torn by
the demands on our time. Here are some simple ways to spend time with
your kids while getting the jobs done that need to be done (including
the toughest job of all, parenting). These Sneaky Fun ideas are also
great ways to teach our children exactly how to successfully
accomplish many routine tasks.
- Make a silly dinner together.
Think 'Green Eggs and Ham' or try a picnic on the living room floor.
Bring your child along for the meal planning, shopping, prep time and
clean-up. Involve them each step of the way.
- Turn on the music and clean, clean, clean.
Forget TELLING your kids to go clean; side-by-side, with some of their
favorite music playing, move through the house dancing and cleaning.
They'll love it (and so will you).
- Exercise together.
You know you need to do it. Your child is your perfect exercise
partner. Make it a 'talk and play' time and you'll both get fit
together.
- Share a hobby.
Love to fish, garden, sew, paint, sing? Share that love with your
youngster. Try an interest that fascinates them. Learn a shared
passion - together.
- Start a girls or boys night out.
You will make an incredible impression with this one. Take your
daughter out for regular manicures and lunch. Stay close to your son
with a favorite concert or sporting event. Teach your children about
wholesome entertainment and the joy of healthy relationships. You can
even team up with another parent and child for regular fun; just make
sure that honest conversation is the true priority.
- Improve their skills.
Do you have a student struggling with homework? Quit nagging and ask
them to teach YOU what they've learned. Be a patient listener. The
fastest way to learn is often to teach.
- Wash the cars.
Need I say more? Water, the chance to soak mom or dad, and a sense of
accomplishment when it's all done. Follow up with an ice cream cone
for a job well done.
- Growing things.
Countless gardeners have discovered deep satisfaction in sharing their
love of growing things with children and grandchildren. Gardening is a
useful de-stressing tool and the most frustrated child tends to loosen
up and share their heart while getting their hands dirty alongside a
trusted adult.
- Plan, plan, plan.
If your household is anything like mine, it benefits greatly when I
take the time to map out regular activities. Menu-planning, budgeting
and vacationing come to mind, for starters. Show your child (of the
appropriate age) how to use their time and money wisely by including
them in the planning of everyday family activities. As they mature,
they can easily be put in charge of some of these planning sessions,
teaching them to younger siblings. Your trust and belief in your kids
can ease the stress on them as they grow, too.
- Organize.
Almost all families struggle with organization in some area. Truth be
told, we're simply busy people and have often outgrown the simplistic
organizing methods that once worked just fine. Give your kids the
opportunity to be the creative organizer in your family. Whether its
making sense of the family photos or tackling the hall closet, do it
with them to get the job done and make a memory that's shared.
- Schedule the fun.
Sometimes the best defense is a good offense. Try scheduling a set
time of fun in exchange for a set time of work. For example, Monday
can be family board game night while Saturday morning sees the family
hard at work in the yard. Sometimes it's easier for kids to see the
point when it's a straight trade off of time and energy.
The idea here is simple and clear. Use everyday activities to build
relationships and teach responsibility. After all, everybody wins when
'fun' becomes a part of daily life!
About the Author: Colleen Langenfeld helps working moms build strong
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