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		<title><![CDATA[Uncomfortable Questions From Friend]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[<i>Hello, Carolyn:

I have a co-worker in her 30s who is married, looking for a house in the
suburbs, planning to have a baby, etc., and she is constantly asking me
inappropriate questions.

I am in my 30s and haven't taken a traditional path in ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1090545</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/12/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Keeping In Touch with Ex-Girlfriends]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from recent online discussions.

<i>Hi, Carolyn:

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we live together,
it's a supportive, affectionate relationship. Lately, we've been talking
about marriage and children (his initiative, ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1064349</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/11/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Blissful(ish) But Not Ignorant]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[<i>Dear Carolyn:

I'm madly in love with my caring, funny and stable boyfriend of over a
year. We've been relatively drama-free, despite being long-distance the
entire time. We were good friends before dating, so knew quite a bit
about each other ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1064048</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/10/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[A New Leaf]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from a recent online discussion.

<i>Dear Carolyn:

After several years of really bad behavior (drinking too much, sleeping
with several married men and general promiscuity, dabbling in drug use
and generally not being a good person), ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1063697</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/09/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Marriage Finances and False Assumptions]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[<i>Dear Carolyn:

My wife is a doctor, and I am a freelance writer. People frequently say
things like, "Must be nice to have a wife who can support you." I make
quite a bit more money than my wife -- I'm pretty successful in my
field, and my wife ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1060181</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/08/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Not Invited and PO'd]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from a recent online discussion.

<i>Hi, Carolyn:

My boyfriend of five years is going to a major family function and
didn't invite me. So, I made other plans while also considering how
exactly to approach this with him -- it is very much ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1054305</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/07/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Expiration Period]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from a recent online discussion.

<i>Dear Carolyn:

How much time is appropriate to mourn the end of a serious relationship?
I had been with my live-in boyfriend for six years when we broke up this
summer. Friends were there for me at ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1050565</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/06/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Brewing Accident Leads to Conflict]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[<i>Dear Carolyn:

I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years. We moved in
together 11 months ago with the understanding that if we still felt the
same way after a year, we would plan marriage.

I am a home brewer of beer. Besides ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1050564</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/05/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Dependency in a Healthy Relationship]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from a recent online discussion.

<i>Dear Carolyn:

How much dependency do you think is healthy in a relationship?

-- Dependent</i>

Dunno. Since there are different ways to be dependent, you'll need to
define dependency. If you're ...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1045391</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/04/2012</pubDate>
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		<title><![CDATA[Controlling Fiance's Friends]]></title>
		<description><![CDATA[<i>Dear Carolyn:

My fiance and I have been together for nearly five years. One of our
biggest bones of contention has been his relationship with his friends.
I feel like he puts them above me. He says he views them more as family
then friends and...<br /><br /><hr size="1" />]]></description>
		<link>http://www.arcamax.com/carolynhax/s-1045084</link>
 
    <pubDate>Feb/03/2012</pubDate>
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