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The "Parenting Experts"

Parents / John Rosemond /

The subject of today’s lesson is so-called experts who don’t know what they’re talking about.

As the reader might already have guessed, the so-called experts in question are known as parenting experts. Most people of this ilk have credentials in various fields of mental health. So do I. In my case, the field is psychology, which I happen ...Read more

Teenage Girl With Narcissistic And Sociopathic Behavior

Parents / John Rosemond /

A recent caller to my syndicated radio show (Saturdays, 6 pm EST, American Family Radio) objected to advice I dispensed concerning a teenage girl who was exhibiting a number of narcissistic and even sociopathic behaviors, including lying and the abuse of animals.

The caller—a young lady in her 20s—pointed out that the girl’s behavior ...Read more

Three-Year-Old With Biting Problem

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: My just-turned 3-year-old daughter has started biting other children in her preschool program. I put her in for three mornings a week thinking she could benefit from a group social experience, but it seems to be backfiring. She bites some other child—the same one, usually—almost every day. When it happens, her teacher ...Read more

The Good Old Days Of Parenting

Parents / John Rosemond /

In the 1960s, as part of an overall, culture-wide paradigm shift, a sea-change took place concerning our collective understandings concerning the rearing of children. The two fundamental questions in that regard are and have always been: (1) What is the nature of a child? and (2) What constitute parent responsibilities toward a child? In the ...Read more

The Little Things Count

Parents / John Rosemond /

It’s the little things that count…always

That’s true when it comes to being a citizen, an employee, and a spouse. It’s also true of being a parent.

In each case, the little things add up to a Big Thing…always.

And the Big Thing is either going to benefit everyone or the Big Thing is going to be to everyone’s detriment.

One of the...Read more

Question And Answer Session

Parents / John Rosemond /

A composite of recent questions posed to me by journalists, along with my answers:

Q: What is the biggest problem in American parenting?

A: The marriage not lasting much past the birth of the first child. The two people, husband and wife, continue to live together but their marriage slowly fades away and is replaced by a ...Read more

Humility Vs. Self-Esteem

Parents / John Rosemond /

A mother who attended a recent presentation during which I described the differences between high self-esteem and humility writes asking “What should my husband and I be doing to help our children develop humble hearts?”

Before I answer her question, I need to point out two things: First, humility was the cultural ideal up until the late ...Read more

Underachieving High School Son

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: My 14-year-old son started public high school this year and immediately fell into his old bad habits. He’s intelligent and capable of making consistently excellent grades, but he often does less than he’s capable of. He also tends to wait until the last minute before he begins something like a book report. I’m on the ...Read more

Authority And Obedience

Parents / John Rosemond /

The following statement is true: A child’s natural response to the proper presentation of authority is obedience.

The following statement is also true: Most of today’s parents -- I’d estimate over 90 percent—do not act like authority figures.

A woman tells me her 5-year-old does not do what she tells him to do. I disagree, pointing out...Read more

In Parenting, You "Can't Always Get What You Want"

Parents / John Rosemond /

One of the problems I occasionally struggle with is that of giving unsatisfactory answers to people’s questions. By that, I mean answers I know are unsatisfactory in the sense that they do not promise solutions, but are nonetheless the best I can do.

A recent example: The parents of a 15-year-old boy ask me what to do about his pornography ...Read more

Three-Year-Old Throwing Tantrums

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: Our first, a girl, just turned three and has suddenly started throwing tantrums. She can begin a tantrum when she’s alone in her room if something she’s playing with doesn’t do what she wants it to do. It’s as if she is right on the edge of a tantrum all day long. We’ve started walking on eggshells around her as a ...Read more

ADHD Treatment -- Diet Or Medication?

Parents / John Rosemond /

In America, the go-to guy on ADHD is Dr. Russell Barkley, whose impressive credentials include psychologist, clinical professor of psychiatry at the Medical University of South Carolina, and author of several books. In an online course on ADHD, Dr. Barkley compares my views on ADHD those of the Church of Scientology. Rather than address the ...Read more

Depressed Son Or Bad Parenting?

Parents / John Rosemond /

A father tells me that he tries to give his son, age five and an only child, everything he wants because he wants his son to be happy. But he’s not. He’s petulant, moody, often sullen, and is having problems getting along with other children. Furthermore, he doesn’t seem to appreciate anything his parents do for him. He’s very demanding ...Read more

Readers React To "Attachment Parenting" Column

Parents / John Rosemond /

In a recent column, I referred to “attachment parenting babble,” which is to say, I called a spade a spade. The column in question concerned parents whose three children had been sleeping with them for eight years. In one night, these parents ended the arrangement. They did so by simply telling the kids that co-sleeping was over. They did ...Read more

17-year-old lost motivation

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: Our 17-year-old has completely fallen apart! In less than a year, he’s gone from being an outstanding honors student, athlete, and well-mannered young man that all of his teachers, coaches, and friends raved about to being a mediocre (B/C with the occasional D) student who has decided he’s had enough of playing sports. His ...Read more

The "Too Big To Fail" Mom

Parents / John Rosemond /

This is a story about how quickly parents, if they are determined enough, can make significant change in parenting policy.

The family in question consists of two boys, ages 9 and 8, and a 12-year-old girl. Mom admits to having centered her existence around her kids. She describes herself as a “too big to fail mom.” She was a mom who felt ...Read more

Homeschooling 101

Parents / John Rosemond /

With increasing frequency over the past ten years or so, parents have asked me various questions about homeschooling, all pretty much boiling down to “Should I homeschool my child?”

First, I am a proponent of homeschooling. (Full disclosure: I am on the board of, which is an offshoot of the Home School Legal Defense Fund,...Read more

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