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Less Or More Involvement With Homeschooled Children?

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: I homeschool my three children, ages are 8, 6, and 5. The older two have a very poor attitude about doing school, especially math, and the younger one is starting to pick up on it. Their poor attitudes make the lessons take longer and they complain and cry about finishing their assignments. I've tried sending them to their rooms until ...Read more

Daughter Won't Sleep

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: My daughter, who just turned three, has a surge of energy after dinner and can take hours to fall asleep. I try putting her down around 8 o’clock, but there are nights when she doesn’t fall asleep before 10. Sometimes she tells me she's tired but can't fall asleep. At other times, she will throw a tantrum before bed. When ...Read more

How To Deal With 16-Year-Old Who Smokes Pot

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: I caught my 16-year-old smoking pot. I took everything from him and told him that the next time I catch him, he’s out! What else can I or should I do?

Answer: Where is he “out” to? You obviously didn’t think that threat through very well. In the first place, it may be illegal in your state to emancipate a 16-...Read more

Perfectionist 4-Year-Old

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: Whenever my 4-year-old son tries something new, he becomes very frustrated if he has any difficulty at all. This happens when practicing numbers, letters, or anything else I try to teach him. I tell him that he’s doing fine and will do better with practice, but it’s obviously not sinking in. In general, he’s a ...Read more

Struggling With Blended Family

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: We are a struggling blended family. My husband has three children (ages 7, 12, 17) from a previous marriage. Their mother's home is focused on the easiest way of parenting. She allows unlimited electronics, showers the kids with presents, and does not discipline effectively at all. It’s obvious she wants to be the kids’ ...Read more

7-Year-Old Still Sucking Thumb

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: Our 7-year-old son has sucked his thumb forever and more or less constantly. He has recently switched to sucking his index finger and putting his right hand down the back of his pants at the same time. This is driving us CRAZY!!! I read your response to a question recommending "if you catch him sucking his thumb outside his room...Read more

TV Watching While Sick

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: My 6-year-old daughter watched too many episodes of a certain TV show when she was sick and now she doesn't want to go to sleep at night because she is having scary thoughts related to the show. She will come out of her room again and again complaining of these thoughts (mostly before she has gone to sleep…rarely in the middle...Read more

To Act Or Not To Act With Struggling Kid

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: We have a 7-year-old son and two girls ages 9 and 6. The girls are gifted academically and athletically. He simply can’t keep up with them. They’re even better at bike-riding. As a result, he doesn’t want to participate in sports. If on a rare occasion he plays with the girls he has to win and becomes very upset if he ...Read more

Sleepovers Or No Sleepovers?

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: My husband and I have decided that we do not want our children to participate in sleep-overs. We recently moved to a new community and are just making new friends and meeting new families. All of these parents, it seems, love to do sleep overs. We, however, are sticking by our guns. As a result our kids are beginning to feel left out....Read more

Sports Or No Sports?

Parents / John Rosemond /

Q: Is three hours of one sport once a week too much for a 7-year-old? This sport meets from 6 - 9 PM. It is nearly 10 PM before child is in bed (as opposed to usual 8:30 bedtime). My husband thinks it’s OK. He points out that our son’s homework is not suffering and he’s not sleep deprived (though he’s often grumpy the next ...Read more

Charlize Theron Parenting Controversy

Parents / John Rosemond /

Actress Charlize Theron recently caused a media stir when she wrestled her adopted four-year-old son Jackson to the ground when he began throwing a public tantrum. For this, Theron was labeled a "monster mom" and generally raked over the coals of parenting correctness by the media.

When photographs of Ms. Theron subduing Jackson went viral, the...Read more

Response To Reader Backlash

Parents / John Rosemond /

I never cease to be amazed at the reactions people sometimes have to things I say. Most recently, a significant number of folks—women, all—were outraged over something I posted online: In a family, the husband/wife relationship should come first, meaning it should outweigh the relationship between parent and child. Said another way, the ...Read more

The Democratic Family

Parents / John Rosemond /

A recent article on grandparenting.com says that many baby boomers are experiencing difficulties in their relationships with adult children, including “not enough time together, not enough regular communication, not feeling needed or wanted…not understanding why they aren’t closer.”

That’s interesting. As I travel the USA as a public ...Read more

Children's Rights

Parents / John Rosemond /

“Do children have any rights?” is the question of the week, submitted by a 30-something reader.

Yes, children have rights. First and foremost, there is their right to be loved unconditionally by the adults who share primary responsibility for their upbringing. I trust we’re all on the same page so far.

Children have a right to be raised ...Read more

Media And Video Games -- Advice Parents Don't Want To Hear

Parents / John Rosemond /

A 4-year-old boy informed his preschool teacher—a friend of mine—that he’d broken his iPad.

“Oh!” my friend said. “What a shame. Did you drop it?”

“No,” the boy said, very matter-of-factly. “I got mad that my mom wanted me to share it with my sister, so I slammed it on the table and it broke.”

His next sentence: “Now ...Read more

Limiting Video Game And Cell Phone Time

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: We would like to limit our 16-year-old son’s video game and cell phone time. We think homework should come first and then free time. He wants to relax with his video game and phone after school which frequently results in homework not being done before he must attend a two-hour team practice at 7:00 pm. That means he’s not ...Read more

Bipolar Diagnosis

Parents / John Rosemond /

Question: Our 3-year-old son is very sweet, loving, and generally well-behaved. Occasionally, however, he breaks into a huge tantrum during which he becomes uncontrollable. The word "possessed" comes to mind. He will suddenly snap from being sweet to being a demon and then back to being sweet and loving again. These tantrums don't occur ...Read more

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