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Hosts Trim Once-A-Year Friends From Their Christmas Party List

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: For the past 17 years, we have hosted parties at Christmas. Although years ago they started with 15 guests and light hors d'oeuvres, the list has grown to 82 guests and a full buffet dinner and bar. It costs several thousand dollars when you factor in the servers and bartender, and it requires months of planning.

Over the years we ...Read more

Teen Directs Increasing Anger Toward His Mother And Sister

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DEAR ABBY: I'm afraid something is wrong with my younger brother. He's just turned 13, and he's become violent and angry. Before, he used to tease me and our sister once in a while, but now it's becoming an everyday thing. If we tease him back, he gets mad and starts yelling.

He directs most of his anger at our younger sister and our mom, and ...Read more

Ex-Military Couple Can't Agree On A Continent To Call Home

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DEAR ABBY: My husband recently retired from the military. We have four school-aged children. The youngest is starting kindergarten, and I would like to go back to work and finally use my college degree. My husband wants to take a job overseas, but I would likely be unable to work due to the language barrier.

I want to settle down in a location ...Read more

Girlfriend Seeks The Best Way To Nudge Boy Out Of Dad's Bed

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DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I moved in with him about a year ago. He has a 9-year-old son, Todd, who stays with us every other week.

Todd is a great kid, but he has a genetic disorder and still often wets his bed. When it happens, he changes his pajamas and then climbs into bed with us. I don't mind, but I ...Read more

Husband's Multiple Affairs Leave Wife In Legal Limbo

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DEAR ABBY: My husband of five years has confessed to affairs that resulted in two children. I suspected that something was up when after a year of marriage he seemed distant. Despite our almost 15-year age difference, I never in a million years thought he would do something like this.

A few months ago, he started disappearing again. At first it...Read more

Knitted Breast Prostheses Are Made With Tender Loving Care

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DEAR ABBY: You would be doing millions of women a great service by telling them about Knitted Knockers Support Foundation. It has been tirelessly working at inspiring volunteer knitters and crocheters to provide free soft, light prostheses for breast cancer survivors.

Typically, the traditional prostheses can be hot, heavy, expensive and...Read more

Mom Stressed By One Child Should Not Try For Another

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DEAR ABBY: My daughter asked me if she should have another child, and based on what I have observed with her first, I definitely feel she shouldn't. I want a polite way to respond without hurting her feelings, but can't find the words.

She loves her child, but loses patience quickly. She can't handle it when her 2-year-old whines or cries. ...Read more

Man's Dream Of Togetherness Ends In Long Family Feud

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DEAR ABBY: I am a happily married man with one problem that doesn't go away. I convinced my wife, Ellen, to move to Florida so we could be close to my family, but now she doesn't trust them because of an altercation she had with my mother. Ellen says Mom made negative comments about her and lied about it.

My intention was for everyone to come ...Read more

Teen's Pursuit Of Crush Could Do More Harm Than Good

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DEAR ABBY: I am 14 and a freshman in high school. I'm not allowed to date (my mother's rule), but I really like a boy. I think of him all the time. Thankfully, I'm his friend, but he already has a girlfriend.

It hurts me to keep my feelings secret, and that he's happy with another girl. I don't want to ruin his relationship, but it sometimes ...Read more

Man Drains Family Savings To Fund Failing Enterprise

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DEAR ABBY: My husband of 23 years, Gerald, quit his job to start his own law firm. He told me about it only after he had quit. I have tried to be supportive, but seven months down the line, he has spent all our rainy day cash and earned only one paycheck. We have two teenagers, one who will be going to college in a year.

I took a high-paying ...Read more

Wife's Job At The Gym Has Husband In A Sweat

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DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for almost 11 years and have three children. About four years ago my wife cheated on me and left. After a six-week split, we decided we wanted to work things out. Everything was great -- until recently, when she got a job working at a busy gym.

Several of the guys from the gym have added her on ...Read more

Self-Made Entrepreneur Enjoys New-Found Popularity In Bed

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DEAR ABBY: I recently started seeing a self-made entrepreneur. He's intelligent, and basically the most amazing man I have ever been with.

Because of his position and stature, many beautiful and sophisticated women throw themselves at him. A friend of his told me that in the months that I've known him, he has had sex with at least five other ...Read more

Grandma Is Tired Of Being A Good Sport And Chauffeur

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DEAR ABBY: My daughter and son-in-law have only one vehicle that is running. He works out of town, so he drives it, which leaves my daughter home all day without transportation.

Earlier in the school year, they signed up my granddaughter for after-school sports and she has to practice every day. Since my daughter has no way to take her, they ...Read more

Unworkable Living Arrangement Weighs Heavily On Young Man

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DEAR ABBY: Earlier this year I moved away from home to move in with my boyfriend. We had been dating for more than a year and were close enough we could see each other whenever our schedules allowed. However, over the last few months I have been second-guessing that decision. I'm noticing things that I realize won't work.

To make matters more ...Read more

Gifts Of Liquor To Recovering Alcoholic Are Not Appreciated

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DEAR ABBY: I recently got my husband back in touch with Scott, his best friend from adolescence and college. My husband's ex had kept them apart, so this rekindling is extra special and appreciated. I don't want to do anything that would jeopardize it. But Scott's wife makes me very uncomfortable.

She is quiet, reserved, but very manipulative. ...Read more

Dad's Notes Follow Daughter Everywhere On Her Honeymoon

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DEAR ABBY: I am a new bride in my mid-20s. I'm writing about my dad.

At the wedding dinner, he read a list of reasons he let me get married. Granted, he thought it was funny, and he always needs to be the center of attention. But during our honeymoon abroad, he sent me messages at every juncture and each hotel.

Maybe he's having a hard time ...Read more

Soon-To-Be-Blended Family Is Divided Over Immunizations

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DEAR ABBY: I'm engaged to a wonderful man I have been with for five years. We plan to get married as soon as his house sells and we can move into another home as a family. He has three children; I have four. Our kids get along well enough, and no serious parenting issues have come up yet.

My concern is, he and his ex-wife haven't immunized ...Read more

Stocking Up On Staples Makes Family Happy For The Holidays

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DEAR ABBY: With the holiday shopping season already here, may I suggest another way to look at gift giving? We all want to give the perfect gift to family members. Some gifts can cost a lot of money and some not. I would like people to take a step back and consider who they are buying for.

I stopped buying gifts for my parents and sister 10 ...Read more

The Way To Make Friends Is To Be A Good One Yourself

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DEAR ABBY: I am a 9-year-old girl in third grade. I have problems making friends. Girls my age and older don't like me much. Boys my age and older seem to be fine.

It's important I get help in making girl friends. I have three hopeless brothers I really don't like. My mom said I should tell you what I do like -- math, science, dolls and TV. I ...Read more

Sharing Bed With Infant Can Lead To Sleep-Related Death

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DEAR ABBY: While, as you replied to Sleepy in California (Sept. 17), some parents do co-sleep with their children for the first few months, what you were referring to is actually bed sharing. Bed sharing was shown in studies several years ago to be the greatest risk factor for sleep-related deaths in young infants less than 4 months of age.

The...Read more

 
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