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Mom Stressed By One Child Should Not Try For Another

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My daughter asked me if she should have another child, and based on what I have observed with her first, I definitely feel she shouldn't. I want a polite way to respond without hurting her feelings, but can't find the words.

She loves her child, but loses patience quickly. She can't handle it when her 2-year-old whines or cries. ...Read more

Man's Dream Of Togetherness Ends In Long Family Feud

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a happily married man with one problem that doesn't go away. I convinced my wife, Ellen, to move to Florida so we could be close to my family, but now she doesn't trust them because of an altercation she had with my mother. Ellen says Mom made negative comments about her and lied about it.

My intention was for everyone to come ...Read more

Teen's Pursuit Of Crush Could Do More Harm Than Good

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am 14 and a freshman in high school. I'm not allowed to date (my mother's rule), but I really like a boy. I think of him all the time. Thankfully, I'm his friend, but he already has a girlfriend.

It hurts me to keep my feelings secret, and that he's happy with another girl. I don't want to ruin his relationship, but it sometimes ...Read more

Man Drains Family Savings To Fund Failing Enterprise

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 23 years, Gerald, quit his job to start his own law firm. He told me about it only after he had quit. I have tried to be supportive, but seven months down the line, he has spent all our rainy day cash and earned only one paycheck. We have two teenagers, one who will be going to college in a year.

I took a high-paying ...Read more

Wife's Job At The Gym Has Husband In A Sweat

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for almost 11 years and have three children. About four years ago my wife cheated on me and left. After a six-week split, we decided we wanted to work things out. Everything was great -- until recently, when she got a job working at a busy gym.

Several of the guys from the gym have added her on ...Read more

Self-Made Entrepreneur Enjoys New-Found Popularity In Bed

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I recently started seeing a self-made entrepreneur. He's intelligent, and basically the most amazing man I have ever been with.

Because of his position and stature, many beautiful and sophisticated women throw themselves at him. A friend of his told me that in the months that I've known him, he has had sex with at least five other ...Read more

Grandma Is Tired Of Being A Good Sport And Chauffeur

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My daughter and son-in-law have only one vehicle that is running. He works out of town, so he drives it, which leaves my daughter home all day without transportation.

Earlier in the school year, they signed up my granddaughter for after-school sports and she has to practice every day. Since my daughter has no way to take her, they ...Read more

Unworkable Living Arrangement Weighs Heavily On Young Man

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Earlier this year I moved away from home to move in with my boyfriend. We had been dating for more than a year and were close enough we could see each other whenever our schedules allowed. However, over the last few months I have been second-guessing that decision. I'm noticing things that I realize won't work.

To make matters more ...Read more

Gifts Of Liquor To Recovering Alcoholic Are Not Appreciated

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I recently got my husband back in touch with Scott, his best friend from adolescence and college. My husband's ex had kept them apart, so this rekindling is extra special and appreciated. I don't want to do anything that would jeopardize it. But Scott's wife makes me very uncomfortable.

She is quiet, reserved, but very manipulative. ...Read more

Dad's Notes Follow Daughter Everywhere On Her Honeymoon

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a new bride in my mid-20s. I'm writing about my dad.

At the wedding dinner, he read a list of reasons he let me get married. Granted, he thought it was funny, and he always needs to be the center of attention. But during our honeymoon abroad, he sent me messages at every juncture and each hotel.

Maybe he's having a hard time ...Read more

Soon-To-Be-Blended Family Is Divided Over Immunizations

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm engaged to a wonderful man I have been with for five years. We plan to get married as soon as his house sells and we can move into another home as a family. He has three children; I have four. Our kids get along well enough, and no serious parenting issues have come up yet.

My concern is, he and his ex-wife haven't immunized ...Read more

Stocking Up On Staples Makes Family Happy For The Holidays

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: With the holiday shopping season already here, may I suggest another way to look at gift giving? We all want to give the perfect gift to family members. Some gifts can cost a lot of money and some not. I would like people to take a step back and consider who they are buying for.

I stopped buying gifts for my parents and sister 10 ...Read more

The Way To Make Friends Is To Be A Good One Yourself

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DEAR ABBY: I am a 9-year-old girl in third grade. I have problems making friends. Girls my age and older don't like me much. Boys my age and older seem to be fine.

It's important I get help in making girl friends. I have three hopeless brothers I really don't like. My mom said I should tell you what I do like -- math, science, dolls and TV. I ...Read more

Sharing Bed With Infant Can Lead To Sleep-Related Death

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: While, as you replied to Sleepy in California (Sept. 17), some parents do co-sleep with their children for the first few months, what you were referring to is actually bed sharing. Bed sharing was shown in studies several years ago to be the greatest risk factor for sleep-related deaths in young infants less than 4 months of age.

The...Read more

Suggest That Holiday Critics Step Up And Lend A Hand

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: The holidays are coming, and this year it's my turn to host Thanksgiving. I'm a full-time working mom with two active children, and I also volunteer. No matter how hard I will work at cleaning my house before the relatives come, I know there'll be areas that aren't spotless. There's just not enough time in the schedule.

I have ...Read more

Surgery Abroad Goes Wrong After Infection Takes Hold

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm 42, and the mother of three children. I love my kids, but after many years of wanting to do something about my mommy belly, I decided to have a tummy tuck.

As a woman of color, my preference was for a sculpted, curvy shape. For aesthetic reasons, I liked the work being done in a certain foreign country. That it was cheaper there ...Read more

Sister Fears Her Wedding Will Be Beginning Of Family's End

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DEAR ABBY: In less than a month, I am being married to my same-sex partner of 4 1/2 years. My brother and I spend time together at least once a month -- if not more -- and he has always given me time with my nephews. Our conversations tend to be centered around lighthearted subjects and the occasional funny joke on our parents. Unfortunately, ...Read more

Friend Enjoys A Free Ride Without The Slightest Thanks

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I am a retired airline employee, and I get passes for my friends and family. I recently provided first-class-eligible round-trip passes from San Diego to Paris to my best friend and her friend. (The fare would have cost them thousands of dollars retail.) The only thing I asked in return was to pick me up a menu, a print or something ...Read more

Kids Lobby Mom To Return Long-Overdue Child Support

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a divorced and remarried mother of two adult children. Both live on their own and have decent jobs. After the divorce, I managed to keep a roof over our heads, food on the table and provide college for my children. My ex-husband, their father, sporadically paid child support, which resulted in an arrearage owed for the past nine ...Read more

Booklet Gives Easy Tutorial On How To Write A Letter

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: I'm a freshman in college, blessed to have an internship in the office of a nonprofit organization. As time goes by, and as trust is built, I am being given more responsibilities. One of them is writing letters for various purposes -- thank-you letters, invitations, congratulatory letters, etc.

When I was in high school, I was never ...Read more

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